Absolutely. Those are the times I'm the angriest with myself for cutting my spouse off--when he says, yeah, that's not what I was going to say.

I definitely have to be more careful with this pattern because one of my favorite things about my spouse is how he can surprise me and I'm actually not always sure what he IS going to say. I want to hear it! So yeah, his "just right" is probably a little less overlappy than mine, and I am going to work harder to respect that.

Thanks for this thoughtful comment--people have made so many points I wouldn't have thought of--and for realizing that your spouse really means well. I wish you both the best!