Also, Shannon, I'm not trying to be obnoxious, posting more links to my writing, and if your stepmother worked in the field she probably knows all this, but I just wrote something about touring memory care homes too:

https://medium.com/p/c77b9d74c542

Still glad there are homes available to tour. I worry that if I get to my mom's age there will be nobody left anywhere who will work in care homes.