I can only offer what I know. I have two little boys and I'm so glad. The constant worry is ridiculous, some of the body effects can be ridiculous, etc. etc., but frankly, if you have a body at all, worry and problems are coming to that for you personally. That's just what bodies do.

I was never a baby person and still don't need to hold other people's babies, although holding MY babies was literally the most fun I ever had.

They don't always make me happy, but they are always surprising and interesting and they make me laugh, laugh, laugh.

Good luck to you, whatever happens.