I don't know--I think every now and then you should say it out loud and see how people react!

Now is that an overlapper/interrupter thing to suggest, or what?

I totally get it. FWIW I do that a lot, only sometimes my "not out loud" things are not very kind. I'm working on being more accepting so fewer of those not very kind things don't occur to me so fast, even if I am succeeding in keeping them unsaid.

I'm glad you didn't say never mind to this conversation. I've enjoyed your comments. Thank you.