I never would have expected it from a kid of mine, and I don't think the younger will do it. Oddly enough my elder also seems to need me more, although he lashes out more as well. He also forgives things more readily than I do; just a different personality. In other things he does respect me, clearly, and is very open in his other communication with me, which I still think is a greater good.
Basically? Raising kids is a wild scene, man.
Mothers have a special status with me! Good for you and your hard work and know you have my respect!! :)