It took me a while to have kids and every time we went to my husband's family they were relentless, when are you going to have kids?!?!? I certainly didn't want to share my fertility challenges with such clueless people so eventually I just started saying "I'm waiting to see if the marriage sticks."

Crickets.

Anyway. I second the other commenter and mean it most sincerely when I say GOOD LUCK and I'm wishing all good things for you.