It's amazing what a good spouse can do for your world, isn't it? I've had my ups and downs with mine but overall I would call him lovely as well, and I'm so thankful.
I agree with you that I really don't want to yell at people. But I am really frustrated by how people don't look at how things are on the ground. I know why Boomers are feeling defensive but there's just no room for defensiveness anymore.
Thank you for reading and for the conversation. You keep writing too. I just followed you and look forward to reading more of your work as well.