Thank you for your thoughtful comment.

I fear I would have very little to add to a virtual meet-up; I don't really have expertise, I was just willing to say out loud, "Wow, here is something I never thought about when it came to end of life issues."

I am also completely not technologically driven and tend to look for non-tech solutions. I do think, however, that advances are being made in robotics and even in medication distribution? These may be of interest to you, and might be okay if they free up humans to spend more time with other humans? But I am not the correct person to ask about that; my outlook on tech tends to be bleak in the extreme.

I very much wish you good luck in your situation.