Thanks for reading, Mary, and I am hoping for all the best for you and your Mom.
I know my mom is unhappy because she can't do all the work she used to love to do. But with very low vision and no working memory--it was not only impossible for her to stay in her home, but you couldn't even do something like make cookies with her because it was so frustrating and she really just wanted to be able to do it herself!
The moves are really hard. There are still places out there with really compassionate help and I hope you have one nearby to you.